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Or, you can check out a group specifically for older lesbians.Letting others know you’re open to meeting new people is a great way to get introduced.“Many times a newly out woman will settle right down with the first woman she dates, especially when she only knows a few other lesbians in her town,” she explains.“That’s where the ‘U-Haul’ stereotype of women who start seeing each other and then immediately become a couple comes in to play.” Cage advises avoiding this mistake by keeping in mind that you need to have more in common with a potential girlfriend than the fact that you are both gay.You will probably have some success and some failures, but you can’t let the rejections get you down. Sexuality is fluid and many people do not understand that statement.
“They feel as if they need to belong in the queer world, have queer friends, get the inside joke and be recognized by other queers,” she explains.If you’re in a community where people are out and open, you can meet lesbians just about anywhere doing anything you enjoy.Plus, just getting out, you will feel better about yourself and stop focusing so much on how hard it is to meet women.“Read books so you feel a little familiar with this aspect of your upcoming relations,” advises Cage.If you have a gay-friendly erotica store in your town, Cage advises you visit it before you enter the dating scene; if you live in a town that doesn’t have a store like that, do your research online.
The good news is, unlike 1980, we now have the Internet as an option for dating.